http://189128211.qzone.qq.com Fri, 05 Dec 2008 13:44:58 GMT Qzone zh-cn Copyright (C), 2005-2008, Tencent Tech. Co., Ltd. Thu, 04 Dec 2008 10:55:06 GMT http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1228388106 　　十年前我没有QQ，还在大型游戏厅里玩真侍魂等ARC游戏。
【回忆1999年】
　　中专开始在一个电脑房里打半条命和星际
【回忆2000年】
　　面临就业了。。。。
【回忆2001年】
　　姥姥在今年去世了。。。。 我中专也毕业了
【回忆2002年】
　　春季高考没考上。。。我无语了。。。。。。。。。
【回忆2003年】
　　开始工作，攒钱娶媳妇。。。。
【回忆2004年】
　　还得上学啊。。。。 春季高考上了个这样垃圾的学校。。。。。 早知道就不上了
【回忆2005年】
　　大学的日子好悠哉悠哉啊！！ 奶奶去世了。。。。
【回忆2006年】
　　面临大学毕业就业。。。。。
【回忆2007年】
　　工作了，认识了N多人，感觉没以前认识的人好。
【回忆2008年】
　　灾年，疾病接踵而至，我到现在都没得过病，今年一起了。。。。

最爱听陈奕迅的《十年》```

十年之前
我不认识你你不属于我
我们还是一样
陪在一个陌生人左右
走过渐渐熟悉的街头
十年之后
我们是朋友还可以问候
只是那种温柔
再也找不到拥抱的理由
情人最后难免沦为朋友
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直到和你做了多年朋友
才明白我的眼泪
不是为你而流
也为别人而流
]]> http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1228388106#comment 134218240 Thu, 04 Dec 2008 10:55:06 GMT http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1228388106 http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1213277123 http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1213277123#comment 512 Thu, 12 Jun 2008 13:25:23 GMT http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1213277123 http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1211867436 三、阅读（第九课）Success
Success has many layers and many definitions. We generally think of success in broad terms. When a person is successful, we seldom ask what that means, what success and whether that is the kind of success is “all in your head.” However, everyone’s definition is different, because ideally we will set goals that are appropriate for ourselves. The best definition of success will involve what matters most to us not to others.
You may be surprised to find that success is not only temporary but also relates to failure. We achieve, and then we find ourselves looking t the next step. Some steps that don’t work might be considered failure, but they are temporary as well. Some people, when they face setbacks, say, “This is never going to work.” Or “I’m a failure.” Part of success is dealing with failure, and we recognize that no one has the time, energy and interest to “do it all” to become proficient in every area.
Failure often causes reassessment of goals, greater striving, and hence greater success. Most successful people admit they have had some “good luck” that helped them along the way. Chances are that they have had “bad luck” too. They have made some mistakes, but they were not defeated. Success most often comes to those who set realistic and reasonable goals and to those who work hard persistently and with enthusiasm, without giving up when things go wrong. These are the keys to success for everyone.
Some people see success as a secure niche. They will occupy it when they are finished with the hard work of achieving and changing. But we are all in transition and are often required to meet new challenges and draw on new abilities. So, goals appropriate at an earlier age fall by the wayside as we acquire new skills, as our values become more certain or as our experience opens up new horizons. In this way, what we view as a great and exciting success today may fall into a more modest perspective later in life as we move toward greater maturity and fulfillment, which means our definition of success changes as we grow.
It may seem surprising that some people are afraid to succeed. Success brings more responsibility and higher visibility. It leads others to expect them to keep performing well. Success requires continued effort to get there, to stay there and to continue growing. The person who accepts failure, however, no longer has to keep trying. Failing can be a way to exert independence against the real or imagined demands and expectations of others.]]> http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1211867436#comment 512 Tue, 27 May 2008 05:50:36 GMT http://189128211.qzone.qq.com/blog/1211867436